What Every Busy Mum MUST Know About Manifesting Their Dream Life If You Want To Succeed!
13th January 2020
Over the past few weeks, I’ve shared some of my own experiences and my journey from busy mum trying to create her dream life all the while juggling the limitations of an energy draining condition to quite literally, having it all.
Today, I wanted to share the journey of one powerful soul I was blessed to work with a few years ago.
Her journey, my journey and even your journey may seem so different yet I’m sure, you’ll also spot the many similarities.
“Sally” was a busy stay at home Mum, who had spent her entire life taking care of her family.
Like all us mums, putting everyone else's needs before her own became commonplace.
Not wanting to ever let anyone down who needed her, she found herself in the position of struggling to say “no”, even to things she knew she didn’t want to do, didn’t have the time to do and sometimes didn’t feel equipped to do.
As a result, she ended up spending her days rushing around from the moment she woke until the minute she managed to get into bed.
Spending every waking minute multi-tasking leaving her utterly stressed, completely overwhelmed and constantly feeling as though she was running on a less than empty fuel tank...
After years of being stuck in the same boring, unfulfilling and monotonous routine she had thoroughly lost sight of who she was.
Every time she looked in the mirror she saw a loving mother and a loyal wife and yet, she also saw a shell of who she longed to be staring back at her.
No matter who she helped, how much she helped or what she did, nobody “saw” her or ever truly appreciated what she did...
Not only was she trapped in a lifeless existence, she was quite literally trapped in a nightmare...
Her partner was emotionally abusive.
Like all relationships, it started out normal but along the way things changed...
She kept holding onto the ‘good days’, hoping that one day things would change for the better.
Every time something went wrong, she knew it was her fault.
She shouldn’t have said that thing, done that thing or behaved in that way...
It was her job to make a happy healthy home life, she was the one who was failing.
As time continued to fly by, little by little her viewpoint changed...
A spark inside her which had been dampened down for so long started to get stronger...
Then one day, she knew it wasn’t her fault.
It was time she was noticed, was appreciated and felt worthy…
It was time she got her sparkle back!
The problem was, she’d been here before…
Multiple times...
She had tried workshops, read books and watched motivational videos but these only seemed to give her a temporary fix or a mild improvement before she quickly reverted back to old, unwanted and self-defeating habits...
After spending so much time working on herself, she understood the theory of what she needed to do but found it almost impossible to see the same results as the testimonials implied.
She was lucky if something ‘stuck’ for a few weeks, let alone this elusive ‘forever’ so many books, programmes and coaches promised...
She always seemed to take one step forward and then three steps back…
Forever trapped in a situation which was slowly destroying her…
Undermining her self-esteem, her confidence and her self-belief, leaving her feeling unloved, unworthy and unimportant…
After trying for months and months to make the changes she knew she needed to, she was so confused about what she really wanted, let alone how to go about achieving it!
Feeling frustrated, fed up and fearful of a future filled with more of the same she hit rock bottom...
Thankfully, the little spark which had got her so far was still shining…
She knew that she simply could not go on in the way that she had been for any longer.
She knew that in order for things to change, she had to do something different…
Something she had never tried before…
She was finally ready to take the biggest step she’d ever taken so that she could change her life forever...
She knew that the fear of staying stuck where she was, vastly outweighed her fear of moving forwards...
Because of this, she knew that in order for this time to be different she needed a simple, structured plan which provided her with all the tools, techniques and tasks she needed to move forward.
She also knew from past failures that unless she had constant reminders she’d very quickly backpedal and stop taking the necessary daily action towards her goals.
After seeing a post on Facebook, Sally took a leap of faith…
She signed up for my free ‘7 Secret Questions To Crystal Clear Clarity PDF’ so that she could wipe away the brain fog she’d been feeling and start to uncover what she wanted.
But, she didn’t stop there…
She also said yes to her future by purchasing the ‘New Beginnings Mind Reset Online Programme’ because she knew she needed more help.
Being a busy mum, the freedom of an online programme meant she could take action around her hectic schedule and therefore increase her chances of success.
As soon as she purchased the programme, she dived straight into week 1.
First, she took the time she needed to get crystal clear clarity on what she truly wanted out of life, then set her goals and intentions.
Day by day, the inspirational emails flowed into her inbox.
Week by week, the programme delivered the exact things she needed, just as she needed them.
Utilising the tools, resources and simple to follow workbooks she was able to see a rapid change in her self-worth, self-belief and self-confidence.
But here’s the thing that most people don’t tell you…
So she reached out.
Together we uncovered her sabotaging blocks and developed simple strategies to navigate around them so that she could keep moving toward the future of her dreams and not be stuck in the life of her nightmares.
Stripping back her past challenges, failures and mistakes enabled us to find quick, simple and safe solutions so that she could quickly get back on track any time she felt herself become entangled in the busy, monotonous day-to-day she was determined to escape.
Once Sally had truly committed to the future she wanted, established a firm foundation of belief that she could achieve anything she set her mind to and took daily and consistent action towards her goals, she was quickly able to shift her mindset from feeling stuck, stressed and overwhelmed to feeling calm, positive and finally in control of her own life.
Very quickly she started to reconnect with who she was and was able to take action on things she had always wanted to experience in life.
Once she had crystal clear clarity on the things which brought her joy, peace and happiness she was able to effortlessly turn her back on anything that no longer made her feel good.
Since finishing the programme, Sally has walked away from her emotionally abusive marriage and reports feeling happier, freer and more positive than at any point in her life.
For the first time in a long time, she looks in the mirror and sees a confident, powerful and worthy person staring back at her.
She not only knows who she truly is or what she wants from her life, she knows exactly what to do in order to attract it.
Most importantly, she has established clear boundaries, has learned to say “no” to situations without feeling eaten up with guilt and she finally puts her own needs as a priority.
Today, she lives her life with a full fuel tank which never empties and has boundless energy, effort and enthusiasm meaning she is able to continue to give to others, without worrying about burning out.
But, none of this would have been possible if she hadn’t first discovered what she wanted or who she wanted to be.
Having Crystal Clear Clarity on the things you desire is always the first step in making changes in your life.
Trying to skip ahead to the action parts just leave you trapped in an endless cycle of starting, stopping and starting again, forever wondering if you’re destined for an empty, boring and monotonous existence…
Thankfully, you can download the ‘7 Steps To Crystal Clear Clarity’ Sally used to successfully transform her life and catapult her success for FREE.
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Happy manifesting!
Julie
Who is Julie Hamilton?
Hi, my name is Julie Hamilton and I am a Transformational Coach and Energy Healer with over 20 years experience, who passionately helps women in business unashamedly reclaim their identity so that they can live a life fuelled by purpose, meaning and fulfilment.
The only problem is that right now your life is so far away from the one you dreamed of having all those years ago, that trying to connect with who you are, what you want or even what you're doing is like grasping handfuls of dry sand...
The Mindful Manifesting Method takes you by the hand and safely guides you back to you so that you can once and for all thrive in the world you created not just struggle to survive in the world you found yourself living in...
I help you ignite your inner sparkle so that you really can 'have it all'.
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